Difficult Conversation Scripts: Exactly What to Say in Tough Situations

Duration: 90 minutes

Imagine you get a complaint that an employee has a severe hygiene problem that is affecting the productivity of peers. How many of your managers could handle that conversation? How many would scramble for the exits?

They should ALL be able to handle it. Leaders often have to do uncomfortable things, and that includes the full range of difficult conversations – all the way from “Your performance is unacceptable” to “Your language is offensive” to “Your colleagues have complained about an odor coming from your cubicle.”

Lots of managers run away from these conversations. But the costs of practicing avoidance are huge. Problems fester. Employees lose respect for do-nothing bosses who can’t handle conflict. Morale suffers. Productivity plummets.

And it’s totally unnecessary because conducting difficult conversations is a leadership skill like any other—it can be learned. Armed with exactly what to say, and how to say it, your managers will have the confidence to make the toughest conversations happen sooner, go more smoothly and produce better outcomes.

LEARNING OBJECTIVES

Participants at this conference will learn: 

  • Exactly what to say when conducting excruciatingly difficult conversations about:
    • Hygiene
    • Poor performance
    • Bad behavior 
    • Inappropriate appearance
    • Tardiness 
    • Accusations from co-workers 
  • The biggest mistakes managers make when engaged in an excruciatingly difficult conversation
  • What beliefs and assumptions get in the way “in the heat of the moment”
  • How to handle objections from employees
  • Which words and phrases to avoid and which ones to use instead
  • How to communicate more clearly and dramatically reduce defensiveness and misinterpretations
  • Powerful communication skills that pave the way for direct, honest, dialogue  

      ABOUT THE SPEAKER

      Amy Henderson leads Henderson Training located in Bend, Oregon and has been involved in all facets of training and development since 1991. She's worked in a wide array of industries nationwide such as high tech, banking, insurance, retail, manufacturing, construction and hospitality. Amy is a seasoned trainer who draws on her expertise as a manager and entrepreneur. She has logged thousands of hours in the classroom, facilitating training, individual coaching, and has designed and implemented a wide range of programs.

      Certification

      This program has been approved for 1.5 recertification credit hour through the HR Certification Institute (HRCI) & Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM).

       


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